When people make us angry one of the first reactions to express our anger or frustration is to yell and argue.
Instead of taking that route try being slow to anger, or like the old folks use to say, just zip it.
Take time to think it through before you snap on someone or justify your actions.
Keeping quiet at times is not a demonstration of weakness but strength and discipline. Remember, sometimes just zip it.
Proverbs 15:8 A wrathful man stirs up strife, But he who is slow to anger allays contention.